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The purpose of blogs (Tips from the mods)

It would appear that it is time for a bit of a refresher of how this aspect of the site works.
Blogs are meant for posting thoughts and reflections, stories and general quandaries. It's not meant to be an advertising space!

While it is allowed to post a blog about what you seek, it is strongly recommended that you don't waste your time on that. Because that's usually what it ends up being, a waste of time.
If you are looking for someone to belong to/own then please use the forum.
There are sections dedicated to this purpose that has no other kind of information in them.

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The purpose of blogs

It would appear that it is time for a bit of a refresher of how this aspect of the site works.
Blogs are meant for posting thoughts and reflections, stories and general quandaries. It's not meant to be an advertising space!

While it is allowed to post a blog about what you seek, it is strongly recommended that you don't waste your time on that. Because that's usually what it ends up being, a waste of time.
If you are looking for someone to belong to/own then please use the forum.
There are sections dedicated to this purpose that has no other kind of information in them.

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A little piece of advice

So you're new to the lifestyle and don't really know how to go about it.. You can't wait to have that first submissive girl sitting at your feet or beating the shit out of.. Well, there's a few things you need to consider before you do that and to keep in mind as you go about your journey.
This was initially written to someone that contacted me and asked for help, for advice, so it's written to a couple that happened to be married, hence the "wife", but it's just as relevant to anyone else. Just remove the word wife and use "submissive" or "girlfriend" or whatever else feels appropriate.

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So, SO happy!

I think I've mentioned a few times over the years that me and Master have worked on getting me to lactate.
We bought simple breast pump at first but when we didn't get any results in 6 or so months we invested in a hospital grade breast pump a few years ago and I've used it daily since we got it.

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Please stop!

This isn't gonna be the most diplomatic text I've ever written, but at the moment I'm actually a bit frustrated and just need to vent and give you all a bit of advice at the same time.

Ok, so I get that you want to find yourself a slave/sub/master/dom.
For a lot of you, this is why you joined the site.

And as I've stated before, it's allowed to post personal adds in the blog section even though we prefer you don't.
(Read this blog for more information on that: http://www.slavefarm.com/blog/aurum/looking-new-partner )

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Looking for new partner

Contact ads.
It would appear that it is time for a bit of a refresher of how this aspect of the site works.
It is allowed to post a blog about what you seek, but it is strongly recommended that you don't waste your time on that. Because that's usually what it ends up being, a waste of time.
If you are looking for someone to belong to/own then please use the forum.
There are sections dedicated to this purpose that has no other kind of information in them.

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Text talk

CMIIW. NE1 DT DGI Text talk T, IMHO, RLY need TGBT RL speak.
TMI? NMP. CUL8R!
Correct me if I'm wrong. Anyone doing that text talk thing, in my humble opinion, really need to get back to real life ways to express themselves.
To much information? Not my problem. See you later!

It's pretty unreadable without that translation attached to it, isn't it?

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To upload a profile pic

First off: This is to change your PROFILE picture. It does not put your picture in the "media" section.
Secondly: Yes, this is the idiot-version. To make sure everyone understands. And no, I'm not calling people idiots. I'm saying that there are idiots out there.
I know MOST DON'T NEED IT THIS DETAILED BUT JUST IN CASE SOMEONE DOES, this is how you do it.

Click on "My profile"
Choose the "Edit" tab in the bar above your picture (below the Moderators advice that is under the big black bar that says "Home Create content My profile Messages" and so on)

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6 years out of 30

Time really fly when you're having fun.
A few weeks ago me and Master had our 6 year anniversary! And 10 days after that I turned 30.

It got me thinking back over the years and things have really changed over time.
I have changed - No wonder. I was barely 24 when we met.
Our relationship has changed - 6 years tends to do that.
He's changed - He was 37 when we met and plenty of experience, but that doesn't mean you stop changing and evolving.
And that's all perfectly normal and very good. Without change life becomes rather boring.

So how have I changed?

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Scrolling is a hard work-out

Yeah, I get it.
You've been looking for a slave for what feels like ages and you're starting to get really frustrated about the situation.
And then there she is.
That beautiful creature that makes your heart beat a little faster when you look at her pictures.
You get excited and can't wait to be able to say she's yours!
So you send a message or a friend request asking to be her master..
No previous conversation is needed for that, right? It's not like she needs to know you before becoming your slave, right?
And then you get the reply.

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