First: Anyone being easily provoked or know that they have a hard time with separating what is my truth from some sort of general truth; DON'T READ THIS.
Anyone being new to this world or in a new relationship with someone: DON'T DO THIS!

What I am about to write about is something that has slowly and over a LONG time evolved and is not something I would ever recommend others to do unless completely and utterly sure they know what they are doing and that the person they are doing it with is to be trusted.
This is something that puts both the submissive and the Dominant part at risk of serious repercussions if something goes wrong or in case of a bad breakup.

I say again; DO NOT DO THIS unless 100% sure you and your partner can handle it.

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When it comes to safe words I think most people in the lifestyle would say they are a necessity and something everyone should have and use if needed. However, I have surrendered my safe words for all purposes other then when we have sessions based purely on gratification and fun.
Those sessions we refer to as "play". They are never based on a punishment or any other reason that might be given as for why someone is being tormented by their Dom. It's simply those times we agree that it is time for some suffering and fun.

To do this is of course a risky step and requires a lot of trust on both parts.
I have to trust that Master knows what He's doing and that He will be able to tell when I've had enough or when it's simply a bad time for what He is asking of me and He has to trust that I won't report Him for abuse, [filtered word] or something like that no matter what happens.

Most couples in this world use safe words for all sorts of things.
They are used to separate when a no is just to provoke or when it's truly meant, to refuse sex when really not in the mood, to let your partner know a punishment are touching the limit of what you can take and so on.

Safewords are GOOD. They are a good thing to have and they help keep things on a proper level for everyone involved.
NEVER HESITATE TO USE THEM IF NEEDED.

I on the other hand have surrendered all right to them at 95% of the time I spend with Master.
He has the right to take what He wants from me at any time and I have no safety net to fall back on if I'm really not in the mood. I have chosen to give up my safe words when it comes to sex, witch means I can be [filtered word]d by Master if I ever refuse Him His right to my body- and I don't mean [filtered word]d as in [filtered word]play, I mean [filtered word]d as in real [filtered word].
I have also surrendered them when it comes to punishments. That means I have no say what so ever in when a punishment is done or not. It is completely up to Master to decide and I have nothing to do but suffer through it until He's satisfied with the result.

To take these steps haven't been a quick or easy choice. It's been a long process where limits have been slowly pushed and discussions have been long and intense before making it reality.
I am fully aware of the risks I am taking in having done this and so is Master.
After all, if I wanted to I could have Him thrown in jail in a heartbeat if I ever wanted to or He could beat me beyond what I could mentally recover from.
This is a risky move on our part but it is also what we need to feel completely free with each other.

I get turned on by the power He now holds over me and I feel more free then I ever have before because of it. I know that I will be punished if I don't do as agreed upon or told and that it will hurt to do things wrong... but I also know that I am loved, cared for and that when the pain goes away I will have a safe harbor in Masters arms, that He will be there and make it all better when it's over and that He won't ever let me down on this.
I know that He will be there no matter what. Even when I don't want Him or when I'm angry at Him. I know that He will never let me fall. He will catch me whenever I stumble. He is my rock.

So yes, we have taken a risky step that I am sure that I at times will regret, like when I get [filtered word]d for real or suffering through a punishment of sorts, and I am completely and utterly happy with it!

Would I ever recommend it to anyone else?
That depends on your relationship. Are you 100% sure of what you're doing is out of your own free will and that you and your partner can handle it then sure. Go for it. But never ever do it without having thought it through thoroughly and being sure that it's what YOU want.
BDSM is not a competition. There are no medals to be won by accepting something you're not 100% comfortable with.