Behavior issues
daddysownlygirl's picture

Behavior, attitude, way of thinking and acting is very important for a girl. I refer to subs and slaves as girl. I began my life journey with my first Dom at 17. One of the lessons I learned from him was the behavior a girl exhibits is extremely important and some things are not acceptable. It is quite disrespectful to the Dom you belong to or one you have newly met and have a mutual interest in. Jealousy and possessiveness are very unbecoming of a girl. They can happen in any lifestyle and relationship, and may be because of insecurity within the girl, because of the Dom she is with or lack of trust she has. No matter what the reason is that this type of behavior happens then perhaps you need to stop and look within yourself and ask, is this the right situation for me. Just a little insight to a valuable lesson I have never forgotten.

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Always-Curious's picture

Re: Behavior issues

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Sir_sadistic2001's picture

Re: Behavior issues

for me as it was also said to me recently it is up to the two involved and the dynamic they have created....

daddysownlygirl's picture

Re: Behavior issues

Thank you for your kind words. i will find out my next topic tomorrow.

Whipped Cream's picture

Re: Behavior issues

daddysownlygirl wrote:
Daddy told me not to bother responding but he knows how important my blogs are to me and he has given me permission to do so. First of all no where in my blog did I state girls are to be devoid of any human feelings and emotions. The key word was exhibits any of the things I mentioned. If I was to show any inappropriate behavior in public or with our group of D/s friends it wouldn't be a happy time when we returned home. How we act is a reflection of our Dom. Every week Daddy and i meet with our D/s group and us girls are given a topic to discuss, this one happened to be about behavior. My blog wasn't intended for any one person or people and if you felt that way, that's on you.

I don't think anyone feels any sort of way dear, we were simply talking. Your blog is lovely, don't let a little discussion discourage you.
Have a great weekend.

daddysownlygirl's picture

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Daddy told me not to bother responding but he knows how important my blogs are to me and he has given me permission to do so. First of all no where in my blog did I state girls are to be devoid of any human feelings and emotions. The key word was exhibits any of the things I mentioned. If I was to show any inappropriate behavior in public or with our group of D/s friends it wouldn't be a happy time when we returned home. How we act is a reflection of our Dom. Every week Daddy and i meet with our D/s group and us girls are given a topic to discuss, this one happened to be about behavior. My blog wasn't intended for any one person or people and if you felt that way, that's on you.

Whipped Cream's picture

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after8years wrote:
daddysownlygirl wrote:
Jealousy and possessiveness are very unbecoming of a girl. They can happen in any lifestyle and relationship, and may be because of insecurity within the girl,

Sorry but I disagree Smile if the D/s is not only a playful one,but a real relationship, a bit of jealousy and possessiveness are normal and natural. And it is normal to show it, from both sides.
To live a lifestyle relationship it doesn't mean to live outside real world. At least this is my opinion Smile

I agree with After 8, a D/s relationship is very much a real relationship for me. I give all of myself to my Dom, I expect that in return from him. I'm entitled to all of my emotions, just like Him. For me, balancing D/s and real word vanilla is essential. I want someone to experience all life has to offer, not just a playmate.

With that said... i'll cut a bitch if she even talks to my curious and lost Master. Wink

after8years's picture

Re: Behavior issues

daddysownlygirl wrote:
Jealousy and possessiveness are very unbecoming of a girl. They can happen in any lifestyle and relationship, and may be because of insecurity within the girl,

Sorry but I disagree Smile if the D/s is not only a playful one,but a real relationship, a bit of jealousy and possessiveness are normal and natural. And it is normal to show it, from both sides.
To live a lifestyle relationship it doesn't mean to live outside real world. At least this is my opinion Smile

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