Where are all the single slaves?
Submitted by dominantsoul10 on Fri, 11/25/2011 - 09:13
Oh where oh where have the single slaves gone?
Bouyed by the pages of happy master/slave relationships on here but saddened at the small fishbowl that is Australia for what i seek
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Re: Where are all the single slaves?
You say that you want to be a Master with slaves on every continent? LOL... does that mean you are nothing more than a online player that is a self proclaimed Master? For those that are real being an online player is not much more than playing fantasy games online... in my opinion a waste of valuable time.
I have not found many real subs or slaves because I specify one thing in all communications, and that is "I will not send money for any reason." This has a tendency of turning off the majority of slaves to me.
Yes, I have had a number of slaves in my life and I do have one now that I have had for 3 years. No she was not my wife of girlfriend either. But I treat her very well, I take care of her, I have total control, and she knows that I will always have her best interest in mind. Yes, I ahve done things to her that she didn't like but put up with because she is my slave... The point is that she is better off with me taking control of her life then she was having control of it herself.
Now I am looking to add another real time inhouse slave.
Since I do have actual experience in a wide range of fetishes, I can go down just about any path except pretend play. Sex, pain, mind games, humiliation, needles, bondage, piercing, violet wand, TENS, I build my own furniture and cages. I like to have get togethers with like minded people. I don't beling to a "Leather" group and I don't normally associate with the so called community... to many politics for my taste. I am just me and I live my life with the best principles that I can.
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Sorry, not sure how I got two replies listed...
Re: Where are all the single slaves?
@Supreme Master, u can stop acting like u r god's gift to slaves, i am not the only one who has the opinion u don't kno ur ass fron a whole in the ground, so give up the holyer than though act, u r not better or worse than anyone else here, and that is all i have to say bout that!!
Re: Where are all the single slaves?
Lil Mimi wrote: "Supreme Master, u don't kno everything, quality slave, such as i want to see a filled in profile so they kno up front what lies there,once again, u ain't all that."
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see you have some kind of problem with me, Sub. If you have problems with me, I hope you eventually arrive at the realization that communication is the key to resolving them. This is like the third time you've thrown your type-written daggers my way. Each time I've let it slide thinking you just had a bad day or something. Plus I think you look mighty cute in the hoodie. But if you choose to continue nibbling away at my patience and good heartedness, I just might have to let loose on you. You wish to make me an enemy that's your choice. But it doesn't have to be that way. I respect subs who have a tough streak. But do not feel for a minute I am going to sit back and continue to allow you treat me as your personal punching bag.
You feel I should make changes then state what they are. I'll take them under advisement as I always do. Until then, consider toning down your negative treatment of me. Unbridled aggression only leads to heartache.
Re: Where are all the single slaves?
@Supreme Master, u don't kno everything, quality slave, such as i want to see a filled in profile so they kno up front what lies there,once again, u ain't all that.
Anyways.....
try filling in ur profile, add to blogs, and make an appearance once in a while in the chatroom, is where i found my One, so keep ur chin up, these things do not happen overnight, it takes time to develope a solid M/s relationship, u will find ur One
lil mimi
Re: Where are all the single slaves?
He's right domsoul. Unless you have a masterful approach to luring subs, world class reputation, bottomless intellect and rippling abs to boot, you're going to find it challenging to attract a real live breathing sub on any website. I can tell you from experience there are subs down under looking to snag a Master on Slavefarm. When I first joined this site, I snagged an aussie slut so quick I hadn't even logged off for the first time. Pretty good for a Pommy bastard eghh? I was EXCITED as , at the time, I was attempting to be the first Master in history to have a collared sub on every continent at the same time. Wanted to be the Reinhold Messner of the BDSM world. Anyway, I found Australia to be the easiest continent of all. That surprised the crap out of me as I thought Australia was chock full of wowsers.
My goal didn't pan out as this particular sub needed a thick paddle on her ass 24-7 in order to keep her yabbering to a minimum. My not being there to administer her WAY-NECESSARY attitude adjustments put a kabbash on the whole thing. She still turns up on the site regularly and you should keep an eye out for her as maybe she can put you in contact with a sub friend. One thing I've found as a universal truth is that a sub can be an incredible source of new sub prospects. Be wary of her Master though , he's a quick-tempered larrikin. I'd give you her name, but that'd disrupt my tradition of holding my business with former subs in the strictest of confidence.
Issib's right. You gotta give more of yourself. Subs are drawn like moths to righteous dynamos who offer cutting edge insights to the masses. Feel free to look at me. This reply ALONE will send a throng of nervous, horny subs to my profile where they will be left wondering, "who is this amazing Dom and why do his standards have to be so dang high?" Then they'll lie in bed or on couches in living rooms all over the world wondering do they have what it takes to even apply to be my sub. A few of the more worthwhile ones even message me to say hello. START by posting a few blog entries describing the hottest fucking scenes that your dominant mind can conjure up. Maybe one a week. They don't have to be long just HOT. Scenes that cause your pecker to harden just by writing them down. Upon reading these entries, potential subs will tremble like they were school girls as their panties moisten from the mere thought of being the target of your deviant mindset. As their britches saturate through they will feel an uncontrollable desire to check out your profile. Then comes PART TWO. You must have a riveting profile. One that sets you apart from the norm. The kind of profile that even other MASTERS read and go to bed trying to envision what kind of man you are. Finally THIRD. Hire a personal assistant or something so you can keep up with all the inquiries. That's what Justin Beiber had to do when he took off. Always reply to subs who initiate contact for they are truly the salt of the earth. Treat them with respect. Don't immediately start with the tired old rules that quality subs grow board with quickly. Ask about THEM, let them direct the speed by which the relationship grows. Immerse yourself in their wants and needs because once you reach enlightenment you will likely realize that helping them achieve THEIR desires is what will give you the greatest satisfaction of all as a Master. And THAT is key. So HAPPY HUNTING and remember that If all else fails, you can always message me for some one on one advice. Last thing I need to be worried about in this lifestyle is competition.
Re: Where are all the single slaves?
I don't mean to be overly critical here but....
You've been a member here since August. You have a bare minimum profile. This blog post asking where all the single Austrailian slave are appears to be the first anyone has heard of you since then. So really, the only people who know anything about you are your contacts in the Wittness Protection Program. BTW, You may need a new identity since you made a public post.
I don't know that this site bills itself as a love connection site, but those connections do happen, but from My observations over the last 6+ years, they tend to happen more with people who participate. If we get to know you, even if attached, you're more likely to get referred to someone we know..if we trust you. That trust doesn't happen in a vaccum.
I realize it might be intimidating for someone new to start a conversation, or jump into an existing one. But we are by-and-large a friendly group. We have infinite patience for the Dom or sub who's new to the lifestyle and those who are experienced and willing to share their insights. But it's a lifestyle that has a foundation in trust. You need to step out in order to try and gain that.
That's My opinion anyway, Your mileage may vary.