"PERFECT MAN"

That makes me laugh. I have never come across one

As every poster as stated, you need to state your limits up front, and right off. Removing yourself, just cuts down your chance of finding the preson that can help learn and yes maybe expand your limits.

handcuffmeplz,

ALL I WANT IS A MAN WHO CAN HELP ME EXPLORE MY WILD AND KINKY SIDE.

In this post you have stated what you want. If this is what you want then stick to your guns and look for that.

Don't call yourself a slave or submissive because you are neither. Your someone who wants a kinky f**k that includes some sort of bondage and domination while your in the bedroom.

There are plenty of men out there that are happy to give you that and no doubt you will have more then a few offers.

When you get ready to commit yourself to a Master then you will not have a second thought about wearing His mark on your body even if it were as prominant as on your forehead.

Until that time just state what you want up front and don't waver. You will find a submissive male that will be happy to act out your fantasies.

Shado  

 

I THOUGHT I FOUND THE PERFECT MAN

There is no perfect man, only a suitable one. 

ALL I WANT IS A MAN WHO CAN HELP ME EXPLORE MY WILD AND KINKY SIDE WITHOUT THE USE OF NEEDLES, TATTOING, FIRE PLAY, PLAYING WITH KNIVES OR ELECTRICITY.

Ok, your limits are no needles, no tattooing, no fire play, no knifes, no electricity. Make your limits known up front. Limits are very important here.

I AM SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING PULLING MY PROFILE FROM THIS SITE.

Do not alienate yourself because you had a disappointment. Be patient in your endeavors. Take a breather.

http://latches.webslaves.com/checklist.htm

http://www.bdsm-education.com/checklist.html

 "HE HAS TO TALK ABOUT TATTOEING OR PIERCING PARTS OF YOUR BODY"

But isn't it better he mentiones things he desires as well? Things should be discussed, and also, people change all the time. One might say, "hell no" one day and next week/month/year that interest changes. If you tell him your really turned off by this and you feel its a strong limit on what your willing to do,  maybe give Him more reason for your dislike,  so he can understand your aversion at this time.

You might download one of those online BDSM questionaires that covers limits, interest and what level your willing to try things. Keep that up to date. Sharing this information may be helpful in shedding light on each one of your interests,dislikes, ect., opening up communication between Y/you.

...    Good luck

elkhartdom, trust has to be earned on both sides.  That takes time.  If she has limits, they should be respected.  

total trust in your dominant is necessary, totally necessary, you belong to him, if he knows things that you think are no nos, if he knows what will make you stay in sub space, make you feel good, and wants the pride of ownership, I dont see where the problem is. If you dont want to be owned, marked and be property, perhaps a submissive attitude would be better set than slave.

If you don't want to be marked then state it up front. Say no percings tatoos, ect up front not later. And if he aggress then fin if he then goes back on it then leave the jurk, he is a lier. Some do wwant to place there mark on there propertyto show that there property is theirs. That is one of the things this is about. The willingly becommiing of property to an other and the excepting of this property with all its propblems and responsablity  that go along with it. I can understand that later if you ever leave him that you don't wnat to have a permant reminder of him on you however understand it from the owners pont of view. He wants to be prode of what he owns and let all that see his property to know that this is his and not theres.

What are u confused about, thing?

You should probably state your limits in the very beginning of any relationship.  Did you do that?  Also, look on other sites and don't give up.  Limits are not a bad thing.  Do only what you are comfortable with doing.