enough bullshit
all right im tired of the bullshit if there's a sub or slave out there who wants to be mine let me know im tired of pretending to be understanding or nice cause to be honest im not i know what i want and contrary to every ones opinion just cause im a young man does not mean im just looking for sex i do want a meaningful permanent to long term relationship with my female and no i dont want to hear from the more experienced people what i should or should not do to attract a slave if one wants me to be her master despite my coarseness then that's exactly what im seeking a slave who can understand that even though im rough and crude i still truly seek the real master slave bond there are too many women playing games about being subs yes i understand that subs by nature are timid when looking for a master but i also know that there are subs who lead strong lives out side of the bdsm life i only want a real sub or slave who is not looking for some rich guy to keep them i also know that this blog is basically the ramblings of an inexperienced dom/master who knows little about how this world works but im not going to spend years wasting my time only to find that there is no connection to be made so if any wants to give me advice be sure its something i can actually understand and use remember im only 25 and have yet to truly connect with anyone
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Re: enough bullshit
I agree with the others. Quit the fucking whining and fill out your profile like most people.
To me, SF is not a dating site per se, but a sharing site.
Hope that helps, nobody wants a perceived bellyacher/whiner...
Re: enough bullshit
Sorry to say I am in agreement with Issib1965. You have little or nothing in your profile. You want to attract somebody? Lets face it whether it is a lifestyle or vanilla site. Advertising is the key. You have to sell yourself in the eyes of a perspective mate. Having nothing in your profile will pretty much net you exactly that. " nothing" "zip" "nada" "The big goose egg" Other phrases may be inserted but I think you get the idea.
Personal opinion. Fix your profile. Don't be in a hurry. I know it sucks to be alone, but trust me it is a lot better to be alone than in a bad relationship. I hope you find somebody decent in the future. Good luck with your search.
Re: enough bullshit
Oh quit your fucking whining and get real.
Lets look at your approach. (1) You have a virtually empty profile. (2) Your forum, group and blog posts either direct subs to contact you or whine about not being able to find anyone but say nothing about you and what kind of a dom you are. In fact this post is where your FIRST give an inkling to a prospective sub as to what kind of dom you are (not nice), but it takes a patient reader to sort through the run-on-sentence of a post you made.
Now let's look at some basic tenents of the Lifestyle. There has to be trust, that is paramount. The sub is trusting you with her safety and her life. Would you trust someone who only puts out there that he is 25, male, dominant and an e-mail address? You wouldn;t trust your money with a financial advisor who put that little information out there, why should a sub trust you with her LIFE?
To Master another, you first need to master yourself. In your 2 ranting posts, I'm not entirely sure you can control your own emotions. How is a sub supposed to trust you with her safety not knowing if you might loose control and beat her beyond her ability to recover?
You may think I'm busting on you. But this is offered as constructive advise with a touch of tough love. Is it bullshit? That's for you to decide. It's advice. Take it or leave it, it's your choice. I'm sure there are subs who will fall in with anyone who claims to be a Master. But in the end that's a short term relationship, IMHO.
Re: enough bullshit
well i think your fine starting out honest is great
im a girl and it took over 5 yrs of seeking to find a "real" Sadist after my last One n i broke up (alot think they are but very, very few real ones out there)...all you really can do is keep looking and being true to yourself in the process and understand its not you that draws the fakes its just the nature of the internet...its sad and distrubing but true. lol listen i know quite a few people here over 4 yrs that i dont believe are real @ all and who are nuffin more than pseudo intellectuals~~~~ my point being its easy to pretend, keep being honest your definatly on the right path cause there are other real people here.... i wish you the best O n lastly wtf does age matter? lmao arent they just closer too death than you? everyone talks about age like it matters well it really doesnt as im sure we all started somewhere...Good Luck
W/we are A/all horribly beautifully made
Re: enough bullshit
we all have to follow our dreams. even though it might be frustrating or seem too hard, if you want it enough to get what you want. i wish you the best of luck!