We're all familiar with the concept of investing. You put a certain amount of money aside and through interest, dividends and appreciation of underlying securities one winds up with more money (in theory) at the end of a given period of time.

The amount of increase is a function of the risk of the investments and the legnth of time the principle is invested. Certainly with riskier investments, their is a greater risk of loss...having less money than you started with.

We seem to be getting a crop of scammers trying to take advantage of users.

We see it time and time again, and it grows old. What is it we see, it is the intolerance of "if your kink is not My kink it's wrong and you're a fake".

Folks, there is diversity in our Community. There are subs and slaves whose tasts and experiences span a vast continium, Doms as well. Hell there's even disagreement about the definition of sub and slave within the community.

How many times have we seen it. A new Dom joins the site. They create a minimalist profile, age, gener, preference and maybe a location.

The very next thing they do (ok, maybe they masturbate to some of the pictures first, but I'm trying to be charaitable here) is post a status message that they are looking for a no-limts slave that they will beat and fuck, make them lick toilets and keep caged.

Oh good, I got your attention.

Let's talk about how to have the best orgasm ever. It starts with finding the perfect slave for you. But how do you do that?

Let's start with how to be a REAL DOM. Did you know that real dom's don't beg? When you write to every slave on the site in status messages for the whole world to see....YOU'RE BEGGING. It's annoying. Real status messages get scrolled off of the home page at a faster rate than normal. You expose that you have no clue what you're doing. And quite frankly it's pathetic.