We see it time and time again, and it grows old. What is it we see, it is the intolerance of "if your kink is not My kink it's wrong and you're a fake".

Folks, there is diversity in our Community. There are subs and slaves whose tasts and experiences span a vast continium, Doms as well. Hell there's even disagreement about the definition of sub and slave within the community.

We are an alternative lifestyle that is not accepted by society at large. We should be welcoming new members with open arms, and learning what kind of sub/slave/Dom/Master they are, rather than worrying about what label is ascribed to that individual (self ascribed or not). Labels don't fucking matter. The question is, are Y/you compatiable with your potential partner?

Just because someone calls themself a slave and You feel they are only sub is NO FUCKING REASON TO CALL THEM A FAKE. A new person who gets scared is not necessarily a fake.

If you're so insecure that you have to bust on another person to make yourself feel better, then look at yourself as you say the word Fake. And by the way, don't fucking take 3 status posts to call someone else a fake.

My advise to everyone (sub, slave or Dom) is don;t worry about the label. Be yourself and find someone that works for you.

Scammers are a whole different breed and need to be lined up against a wall and shot.

As Forrest Gump would say, "And that's all I got to say about that."