Clit removal
massie154's picture

My slave Shelly [ property-of-SirLance ] has offered to have her clit removed with the desired effect being for her to become totally submissively pledge to me her owner / master .
Master is asking other SF slaves have they had their clits removed and what difference did it make to their devotion to their Masters . Masters , could you tell me your opinion of having your slaves clit removed and did it alter their attitude to serving you .
My concern is you already devoted slave may become less interested in servicing masters needs and she may loose interest in all sexual behaviour.

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sjk2718's picture

Re: Clit removal

If you are interested in achieving this, there are clinics available which will do such an operation. At least one woman has had this done surgically, by western doctors, with a positive outcome. You can read about it here:

http://208.80.184.154/servlet/JiveServlet/download/140987-10630/Cosmetic...

Here's a clinic I know of offering the surgery:

http://www.cosmeticsurgeonindia.org/genitals.htm

TotalControl's picture

Re: Clit removal

Everyone is throwing out their opinions on this matter so, here is mine. With everything that you have stated about your relationship it is understandable, your willingness to give something back, in a sense. You two are the best to determine whether this is right for you. Yes, the procedure is permanent. Yes, it will probably make it harder to reach orgasm through stimulation. With all that out, the decision is up to the two of you. This may be considered extreme and even cruel to some but it is your body to do with as the two of you see fit. If you two fully understand the consequences and still want this then who are any of us to say otherwise. To be honest, I am a little jealous. That level of dedication to your Dom blows my mind! Simply amazing! The simple fact that you offered your clit to be removed is a huge deal! Personally, I'm not sure that I would allow it but, then again I personally enjoyed torturing the clit of my past subs. So for me it is a personal preference. Outside of that, I wish the two of you the best, whatever you should decide. I would like feedback on the outcome should you decide to go through with the procedure. I'm rather interested in this subject.

Total Control

ownmycunt's picture

Re: Clit removal

smackdat wrote:
captnjacktw wrote:
I think your heart is in the right place. I support your right to choose how you wish to show your love and devotion. It bothers me that massie154 didn't receive more support in answer to his query about the experiences of others. I thought this site was supposed to be in part about the exchange of ideas and learning.

Thank you Sir for posting words that needed to be put out there for all of us in this community to take pause and reflect upon.

respectfully,
smackdat


i personally think the majority of the responses to this couple's plight fall into the category of "thoughtful" whether they are able to hear them that way or not is also a matter of their free will.
Thanks to all of you who chimed in here, it's obviously something people feel quite strongly about, and really now is that so surprising??? It stimulated a lot of thoughts and feelings for me. I know where I stand personally and don't feel a need to share more than this:
I think you all have good, valid points and are (as ALL human beings) speaking from your own personal experience and values, and as this differs so do your opinions. I am so glad to see that subs and slaves are able to speak their minds without having to package themselves in plastic humbleness. That is refreshing and inspiring to me.
BRAVO! La différence vie!!!!!

smackdat's picture

Re: Clit removal

captnjacktw wrote:
I think your heart is in the right place. I support your right to choose how you wish to show your love and devotion. It bothers me that massie154 didn't receive more support in answer to his query about the experiences of others. I thought this site was supposed to be in part about the exchange of ideas and learning.

Thank you Sir for posting words that needed to be put out there for all of us in this community to take pause and reflect upon.

respectfully,
smackdat

Mermadon59's picture

Re: Clit removal

I have been reading the posts here and am probably going to take a few punches(Hopefully not). Although clit removal is not something I would be interested in for my slave (hypothetically speaking as I am single at the moment)

For me it is permanent and cannot be reversed. One of the posts brought out the fact of the disposable society we live in. I like to refer to it as velcro collars. Meaning many relationships sadly do not last. Some us are old enough to know people that have had a lifetime relationship. But these are getting to be few and far between whether here or in the vanilla world.

I have also taken hits in posts about people going on and on about how open people are in the lifestyle. To me this is bunk. Maybe it is different where you are but my experience in the lifestyle is People are more open if your kink happens to be their kink. If it isnt then in many cases you are some kind of freak or way out there.

Myself, well I would not expect my slave to participate in this. My job as the owner is to protect my property. Yes the word I use is property. The same as a car, stereo or any other item that is mine. It is mine to do with as I see fit. But I like to take care of my stuff. I dont buy a car to drive it into a brick wall, nor do I buy a home to burn it to the ground. So therefore what would be good for my slave's well being is good for my relationship. I would personally not go for this myself anymore than I would having having her eyes removed or her limbs amputated. As to me this is not protecting my property.

What I have said applies to myself and my relationship. Other people and their relationships may vary. So if clit removal is what you both want, then I will support your decision. I might not agree with it or understand the mentality. But I fully support your right to run your relationship as you see fit. Although I would probably draw the line in my support for something really extreme like you killing her.

These are just a few of my ideas and I hope that they make sense. Sorry folks I work midnights and just woke up. Hoping that everybody is having a great day.

Kevan

daniellinda's picture

Re: Clit removal

WHOA!
when i explained in pm to this couple that i was sharing my own personal experience to encourage wider perspective (as a response to the public attack they dished my way) i received this response from Sir Lance's "property"-

"No, you wrote about what YOU like, what YOu want, what You feel, go back and read it. Dont pm me anymore, keep your opinons about me to yourself, you dont know me, and you dont pay my way, just a lil advice, back off!!!. bite down on that bone in your mouth the next time you want to say something to, or about me!"

it seems clear to me where the "hate" is actually residing.

i genuinely mean this:
wishing you ALL THE BEST!!!

soonerthanow's picture

Re: Clit removal

massie154 I find it interesting that your slave uses the word "hateful" to describe the responses you got to a question you yourself have expressed some ambivalence about to a community that has as much diversity as this one does. Both you and your slave's responses reflect an intolerance and mean-spiritedness to the ideas and opinions of others that you went out of your way to solicit that I honestly would consider more appropriately labeled as "hateful" (thought even THAT would be a stretch... )
Dismissive, cold, condescending, and presumptuous are all words I would use to describe your attitudes to the other members who either flat out disagree with this extreme practice, or encouraged you articulately to look a little deeper into the "desire" and examine it with a clear head.

No one was doubting whether this woman's heart was in the right place (before she started lashing out, that is.)
Some of us doubted if her head was though, and so we appealed to you, as the one who is in charge of her well being.

If you want to be a part of any community, you must realize your place within that community- and that others feel just as strongly as you do about their approach, ideas, beliefs, and practices which may differ from yours. This can be a huge asset as it gives one context within which to question, learn, evolve and grow.
If that is not what you are interested in, then take care to ONLY interact with those who will agree with you, reinforce you, fear you, and blow smoke up your ass (ie, don't pose open questions to a diverse online community.)

littlemissmimi's picture

Re: Clit removal

my choice to show my love and devotion to my Master is to be branded with His symbol, His mark, i could never go this far and i doubt my Master would ever expect it of me, but thought i would throw this into the mix as a possible alternative to such extreme, irreversable measures

Amberlicious's picture

Re: Clit removal

You are right, captnjacktw. I would say the reason that more didn't write about what happens physiologically after clit removal is that there are likely very, very few people who would do something so extreme and with such irreversible consequences, so there are even fewer on this site who could report on it.

I'm 18, so what do I know? I would guess that at 44 (with menopause within 5-6 years), the loss of a clit and then the changing of hormones might be a combination that is the death nail of their sexual interaction... but that's their issue, not mine.

Her heart is completely in the right place, as was mine when I suggested I would get tattoed with my Master's name. While I didn't face a "firing squad", I did get both negative and positive feedback. THAT is what this site is for - both sides... even if you feel strongly about one side only and even if you don't want to hear both sides.

There is nothing wrong with what anyone wrote and there are plenty of other gifts a slave/sub could give her Master to meaningfully show her gratitude and complete devotion. If I offered my Master such a thing, I would expect him to say no... for both our benefits; otherwise he wouldn't be looking out for my protection (sometimes from myself), as is part of his responsibility.

lovesbd's picture

Re: Clit removal

I don't care if you answer this or not, but I take exception to being called hateful because I find your clit removal idea totally rediculous. True, the decision is up to you. I don't recall anyone saying the decision was not yours to make. But, why would you do this? To prove your undying love? And, thus to gain his undying love, forever. If he agrees with you on this, to remove your clit, he does not love you, and does not deserve your undying love. I would bet that if you do it, it will not be long before you realize you did not achieve what you desired, and thus regret it, too late. People are not being hateful in their remarks. They are only trying to get the point across that this extreme behavior is going too far, in the wrong direction.

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