D/s relationships

before reading this please note: I have never experienced a relationship where the Dom has not also
been my partner and that the words below are all thoughts and are not to offend anyone.

I have wondered how relationships worked in the D/s when the Dom & Slave
was not a couple.

Reason behind this is that our relationship started as 'nilla and progressed
into a full 24/7 D/s. Always been a high sexual drive between the two of us,
always with Sir taking the lead.

I strongly believe that it is the strong desire to serve him and submit

SUBSPACE

For a while I had been struggling to find my subspace

well firstly, I put this down to sporadic play in 2011 for various reasons - work, health etc...and truely thought this was the case.

After doing some reading in 2012 I now have another understanding, thats not saying I am disregarding my first thought as that may still have some mileage.

Well 2011 is over and we are nearly half way through the first month! So what happened last year?

Well about me to start with I am collared slave to a much loved Sir, a Master who loves and has supported me for the last three years, he nurtures and helps me to grow, He gives me discipline and is my rock, my teacher and mentor...and with all that, has the patience (and a lot of it too) to be my Owner and the great responsibility that comes with that.

So 2011, Lots of Fantasies and some of them even becoming reality but was the reality as good as the fantasy?