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Safe word...really?

Submitted by TwistedSweetness on Wed, 05/25/2011 - 12:28

Hmm...to safe word or not..Bwahahaha NOT!
Yeah yeah yeah I'm sure someone will be pissy when they read this, but as i always say this is MY blog and I can say what I wanna! I was with a group of people over the weekend..playing of course when a friend of another friend couldn't believe I didn't "have a safeword" Um...I'm super sorry dude, but if i need a safeword with my own husband/domly dude, I shouldn't be playing with him much less married to him. I mean really, anyone who knows me knows Im one bitchy tough pain-loving girl who is never gonna give into some lame word because I cant take anymore...my domly love wouldn't give me anymore than he thought I could take or would he...absolutely he would and I might hate a few minutes of it, but at the same time will be in my lovey gooey place noone can touch! I just love that place and might not think he needed to push me that far, but sure thank him after the fact. Sooooo NO SAFEWORD for me...and for the record I am completely sane and have lived just fine through all kinds of wild crazy sick horrible fabulous sweaty bloody hot play... okay y'all back to your regularly scheduled programming...Have a fantabulous Hump me day and beat someone you love!

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Re: Safe word...really?

Submitted by mberhenke on Fri, 05/04/2012 - 23:13.

I full hearted agree. Even though i was not of age in the begining, in the last 10 years of being an owner i can proudly say i have never done the whole safe words bs. And i will ignore any say what the safeword is. Your job is to please me, your pleasure means nothing to me. If i alow you to cum it because i waunted it. If your patedic " sensitive " parts are bloody brused welts that i keep hitting, Its because i want it.

Re: Safe word...really?

Submitted by Nasty_Male on Fri, 05/27/2011 - 17:57.

Safewords are very important, if not essential, early in a relationship while the people involved are still figuring each other out. It's very helpful to have code words that immediately curtails play if things get too intense. To delay play until both parties understand every nuance of each others' needs and boundaries is often unfeasible since that might take months if not years.

In an established committed relationship they should be unnecessary because the people should be able to trust each other to do what is right for their relationship and if the trust isn't there a word isn't going to help.

As is often the case in the lifestyle, make sure your relationship works for you. You can't worry about, or judge, how other people do things because that's akin to comparing what people eat for dinner. Everyone has different tastes and dietary requirements.

Re: Safe word...really?

Submitted by Masterontop75 on Thu, 05/26/2011 - 03:15.

No safe word for me when i am sitting on my slave gal face and she is begging me no more i tell her ok lol and "Sit back on her face for a mm deep smother...

Re: Safe word...really?

Submitted by TwistedSweetness on Wed, 05/25/2011 - 17:33.

You know I freakin love You! I am as sane as you are..bwahahaha

♥♥Jennifer♥♥

Re: Safe word...really?

Submitted by Issib1965 on Wed, 05/25/2011 - 16:45.

There was actually a good discussion about safewords on the Ending the Sexual Darkage podcast. Basically if you're in a situation where you think you need a safeword with your partner, then you're probably in a situation with someone who is going to ignore it anyway. you need to have enough trust in your partner that He won't go beyond what you can handle before you play. Otherwise your fucked and not in a good way.