So I haven't been on lately because of normal things in life.. Anyways I stopped the asphyxiation because I guess I just caught on to the whole ((brain turns to mush). Instead we bought this new strap that goes under your mattress and comes out on four sides to tie my feet, hands and neck. But they don't pull so i have something around my neck for the sensation with out choking. Which really isn't that great but its still does the job. So the cuffs clamp my ankles, wrists and your get the picture i would recommend this for everyone it holds your legs to so that you don't have to keep them held up. So thats been our new thing lately. I will write more details later im in a rush I will update in a few days or so......I just wanted to check in and let yall know that im alive and still kicking lol