The bruises after...

People bruise differently, the mileage may vary.

This is from the same person that gave me the "wings" with the flogger. Canes have been all the rage lately, and it had been such a long time to feel the cane, so we went for it!

I forgot how frisky I get when I get challenged. He did a great job trying to keep it symmetrical as I was jumping, writhing and wiggling around.

Much fun and my bum is sore, sore, sore! Thanks UTG!

So, while waiting for my new apartment to become available, I have to live with a family member that knows I'm into bdsm.

I have some pretty impressive green brown bruises and cat scratches all over my arms from boxes, falling kitchen appliances and angry feline, such is apart of moving. I have told her before, visible bruises were never apart of our deal, I have a job y'know?

I'll give it to her, she waited less than 1.5 hours after my 2 day drive to ask to see the bruises I received at my session with my friend before I moved.

A new perspective was brought to my attention tonight. Even after some lively chat with some pretty fun Doms to try and resolve my inquiring mind, I feel the need to ask and question.

I am quite proud of the marks from the person teaching me pain, even as I leave him. I have always looked at the bruise forming and fading; the progression with pride and a deep, fond memory of gray, yellow, green creation. (Not all BDSM'rs are into pain though.)

A Dom in chat felt, (I'm paraphrasing) that marks should not be made on a subs body.

I've been realizing some things about pain.

The stigma that pain is just plain bad has been emerging itself as a social pressure and not how I truly experience it.

It has become more evident not only in the sessions I've had learning about consensual flogging, slapping, caning, etc., but also in the accidental effects of gravity and the paid for effects of waxing.

Perhaps next time she'll remember to do a better job.

Painfullyobsessed loves getting marks all over her slut body...

Some Danish Erotica --- Enjoy SIR !!!

This is a dream I had about my little one.. I am no author, so forgive the bad grammer and poor writing skills, I just thought others might enjoy it as I did.

Taken during a night in a hotel...