i think it is safe to say that we both want to please the other and we are very much in love. we are open to about anything between the two of us. i need help being a good dom. she does great regardless of the role. i find myself naturally being a caretaker and while i want to be in control as the dom i worry to much about how she feels and if punishments are to much. i am well educated as is she so we both learn quickly. she is more experienced than i am with all of this. so i am open to any and all advice. we both put alot of thought into our roles and games.