i have been around SF for a couple of years now, reading the forums and personal blogs, and yes, at times i check out the media section.

What i am observing and perceiving is the personal growth showing up in the blogs and forums of the submissives and slaves. There is a “sisterhood” within SF, unlike the catty competiveness women lower themselves outside of the BDSM community, to be the most perfect, the most beautiful and will stop short of nothing to attain that status.