I am finding of all the places that I haunt online, are changing for the worst. I find people not really into the lifestyle, but into themselves and their persona online claiming to be much more. And people think this is the norm. I find they're ready to proclaim their dominance and experience online, but don't seek or have the "Inlife" actual experience. Now don't get Me wrong, I have an "online" submissive of "5 years" now, and I have an "actual time" submissive of 19! years as well. I deal with both as an actual relationship.

Hi just wondering if there are any social protocals to this site that i might miss as a new member

my friends here on SF are important to me...call me old fashioned...but what is this "add me to your relationship list" when we have not had the pleasure of being formally introduced...wink wink

i take my relationship list seriously...so if we have not had any dialogue between us...chances are you will not find your name on my list...that is just the way i roll..."smiles"

there is etiquette protocol even in the D/s lifestyle...this is not to offend anyone...just inform.

respectfully,
smackdat