Something I have often wondered what it means to different people. I know myself I never even heard the term until about 9 years ago. I got involved in the lifestyle in 1978. Yes folks that's 33 years ago. I wont go into the details but I had been going through a rough time. I met a woman and through a network she was attached to, I was introduced to the wonderful world of BDSM. I started what was called an apprenticeship. I learned to serve my Mistress and those she instructed me to serve. It gave me focus and helped me sort my life out. I did this and learned for 2 years.