In the beginning, we had very few rituals but as it continued, we gained more. I greet him when I get home. I must get naked and kiss his feet. Tell him the things I need to get done for work and school (I am a teacher and a grad student) and let him decide what needs to get done first and what time I need to be done and ready for our nightly ritual. At night, he unlocks and relocks my collar. It is one I wear all the time-it is vanilla enough to not raise any eyebrows at work and all my teenage students think it's cool.