Sir is wonderful, but a busy man. Miss, whether she's being Miss or my sister, she's busy too. And there has been a whollllle lotta life happening - moving 3 friends out of a dangerous situation, careers up in the air, family stuff, money issues, health issues. It's all meant poor elle hasn't been getting the beatings and degradation she needs.

Last night was a party at Sir's house. His tenant's were throwing the party on the first floor, and part of Sir's area of the house was a social/quiet space & smoking porch. There were a lot of people I didn't know at the party, so I mostly hung out upstairs with Sir's family & my husband, watching them play geeky games and enjoying the hookah company on the porch. Don't me wrong, i love scantily dressed college chicks as much as the next queer girl, but i'm shy, and wasn't up for grown up versions of 7 Minutes in Heaven and Spin the Bottle. And the upstairs folks were just as lovely.