What's the difference one might ask themselves when it comes to the world of BDSM.

For me, the difference is that to be violated is a good thing, to be abused is not.
Violated can be a part of the "game" and the interaction of a couple (or more people) that are living in the lifestyle while abuse is what happens when someone steps over the line of consent.

With no disrespect intended, I share a ponderance of mine, provoked by a ponderance of a dom to whom I offer my deepest respect for his thoughts, as they have brought about my own in order to pen this to him...but never did it make it there into his hands, for I determined I would share it here, instead. He knows this, and I hope he will find time to come and read my original intention in reply.

OH MY GOD!

this is one of those times where i am insanely horny!

right now all i want is to be used.

i dont care if it's by a dom/master, a couple, or hell, i wouldnt even mind if it was a group!

I am a 54-year-old BBW who is not into the pain or bondage aspects of BDSM, but I would like to find a male (or two) who would enjoy using me for a day or weekend. When you arrive at my place, I would like to be stripped naked and have my pussy shaved. I would like to be kept naked and penetrated multiple times by a clean, disease-free dominant male who would fill me with his cum in any hole he wanted to use. If you are able to piss inside my pussy and/or ass a number of times, that would be especially great.