This is cute. So, a sec buddy I've been spending done time with and is not terribly experienced in topping did this.
It was with a black hanky. The ol' "heavy S/M hanky" used with towel snap fun.
The party was not well attended as the biggest event of the year is next weekend. So, the smoke shed where some nice improvements have been made and its an impeccable dirty old leather bar were a great spot . Perfect for play.
He wanted a drop to his knees flick from me, but my technique needs practice. My aim is good, not strength.
Was at a kinky person's birthday party. After her spanking I thought foolishly about the metal tip he took off his belt for her, would in fact be fun for me (not understanding the construction of the belt, thought the tip would fly off when he whipped me with it, I was wrong). To better signify my "strike zone", I made this face. You can see the pock marks he made
I got whipped for the first time last Friday.
Of course I approached it with trepidation and curiosity, probably more calm than I've been in negotiating a scene to this point. This would be the first time playing with this Dom but I was confident in his ability and information. I had seen him in a flogging and spanking scenario before and have been attending monthly classes on varying bdsm topics.
Hard to believe it's taken so long for me to actually watch "The Story of O". Probably should have read the dang book first as that's where my heart found bdsm and the group that shared my fantasies - books and words.
A couple big realizations.
The dubbing was probably the best it could have been given it was not performed in a language I understand. The mis-match of lips to words was probably eased because of the cool collars, cuffs and boobs, lots of perky, well proportioned natural boobs. parlez-vous?
My first play party was awesome!
Being the dork I am, the architecture of the space spoke to me more than the naked tits and dangling penis... well, in the beginning.
It is a humble place in a really bad part of town, but what I noticed around the rough edges and make-shift ways to make it comfy, was the love and care they put into it. The smoke shack out back, the cleverly placed heater on high the whole night to compensate for frigid temps outside and the genitalia dangling about. The kitschy holiday decorations welcoming like a big hug, they even had a tree!