Getting a new girl to relax can be a challenge, but alcohol can help. For a submissive, sitting and drinking with her can take a while and get you drunk as well. The point is not for you to get drunk but to get your slut a good buzz so she can get into the activities. The best way I have found is by using cheap wine as in enema. It is absorbed much more quickly and is much less expensive. It's also kinda fun. Just be careful not to use too much, and NEVER use hard liquor for this activity. Alcohol poisoning is even easier going in this end. So go cheap and have fun.