solo-slaves
Tue, 01/13/2009 - 04:35
#1
solo-slaves
There are unowned, but longing slaves, who play torture- and domination-games with themselves. Giving themselves orders, punishing themselves, denying themselves orgasms, in short, having a "relationship" with an imaginary Master/Mistress, that can sometimes last a lifetime. I'm very interested in this phenomena. Is there anyone on SF who would like to honour their "other half", by telling us something about him/her/them, and the things he/she/they make(s) you do? Regards, BR.
Sun, 01/11/2009 - 05:35
#2
BTW
Oh BTW, i'm not sure of what a fantasy slave could be. To be a slave, don't you have to belong to someone? In my mind that's like standing in the wilderness and saying, "yes Master, i will obey You sir, always." To whom would the person be speaking, worse yet, who would answer? i know i'm ill, please don't point that out to me. LOL
kita 
Fri, 01/09/2009 - 21:00
#3
Blackrule is correct, there are numerous sites devoted to self bondage and devices to inflict torture while thus bound. The person posting above me prolly wasn't joking. Bondage fetisheists dont need a top, just a timer.
Tue, 01/13/2009 - 04:35
#4
alone
There are unowned, but longing slaves, who play torture- and domination-games with themselves. Giving themselves orders, punishing themselves, denying themselves orgasms, in short, having a "relationship" with an imaginary Master/Mistress, that can sometimes last a lifetime. I'm very interested in this phenomena. Is there anyone on SF who would like to honour their "other half", by telling us something about him/her/them, and the things he/she/they make(s) you do? Regards, BR.
Sure I am living in a closet. Thats the key word "living" I have been married way to long to give up the financial security. I have tried over the years several times to get my husband clued into to my fantasies. I reached the point where I knew it wasnt going to happen with him. Thought about at least trying to get a online master. Another keyword "online" you cant trust online. It is depressing when I think the thing I desire most will always be just a fantasy.
Sure I am living in a closet. Thats the key word "living" I have been married way to long to give up the financial security. I have tried over the years several times to get my husband clued into to my fantasies. I reached the point where I knew it wasnt going to happen with him. Thought about at least trying to get a online master. Another keyword "online" you cant trust online. It is depressing when I think the thing I desire most will always be just a fantasy.
Fri, 12/19/2008 - 21:30
#5
Hello Gentlemen,
Has been some time since I have posted or replied here though it looks like it's time again to get back involved here. As for self-punishment described here, some girls may very well be able to carry out some of these though without someone watching over them, I see disaster more so then pleasure from this. Personally like being online only, that "safety net" is there and really only fantasy.
If a girl needs, then she presents herself like everyone else, weed through the emails like everyone else, and picks out those certain ones that can narrow her search to be owned.
The most terrifing feeling is facing your fantasy and turning it into reality, removing that self imposed safety net, ie hiding behind the computer or the phone, safe in your own home with your own rules. This scares a great deal of people both new Masters and slaves as it forces them to actually do what they say and starts them in that test mode, eyed by all, some.
The Masters are out there....the slaves are out there, the life works for those who believe in it AND live it. That first step is a doosey though !
Master D
Fri, 12/19/2008 - 04:53
#6
I agree, kyra. Although the posts here are obvious fantasy (COMMENTS TO THE CONTRARY NOTWITHSTANDING)there seems to be some valid causes for concern from both sides of the spectrum. Unstable people do not good lifestylers make, Dom or sub.
But delusional is just dangerous.
Fri, 12/19/2008 - 04:19
#7
There is something so wrong with this - inflicking pain on yourself -- so wrong on so many levels - like those girls out there who cut themselves --i worry about any person doing this to themselves -- maybe they need some help??? It just seems so wrong to do this to yourself.
Or maybe they live in this world that's all fantasy ??? and then that's wrong too.
i think they need some help.
slavekyra
Fri, 12/19/2008 - 05:27
#8
LOL! True enough, CSTRIPE. But much like the forum artcles of my youth, these were presented as having actually happened... ;-)
Fri, 12/19/2008 - 05:18
#9
fantasy
*Looks at the forum heading "Dirty Fantasies", and simply chuckles.
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Lifes a bitch....Tie her ass up.
Fri, 12/19/2008 - 04:02
#10
What a crock. Those who say they do this to themselves are either outright lying, as seen by the logistically impossible fantasy delusion above, or just in it for themselves.
To abuse yourself without guidance, command,direction or for the pleasure of another is the height of self-centered ego.
It's not what this is about.
Sat, 12/20/2008 - 11:39
#11
Now there's a good fantasy worth pursuing - all of us posting in the correct threads! ;)
Sat, 12/20/2008 - 11:39
#12
Now there's a good fantasy worth pursuing - all of us posting in the correct threads! ;)
Sat, 12/20/2008 - 07:52
#13
chuckling
I was chuckling because people tend to get too serious in a "fantasy" forum. I believe the discussion should have been in a different thread.
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Fri, 12/19/2008 - 04:03
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Thu, 01/08/2009 - 20:11
#15
I understand
I understand, I just moved to Oklahoma City & there is no group to meet people!! ..... oh well, off to tie my self up and freeze a key.
Good night
Sun, 01/11/2009 - 05:29
#16
Right Or Wrong
Right or wrong i punish myself all the time but it is not for any type of misguided self-hatred or anything else. i train myself to endure even the harshest tortures so that when Lord Aaron punishes me He
doesn't need to or have to hold back. It is the mind that conditions every thing about a person. Pamper yourself too much and pain can become very unpleasant. i try to avoid fantasy on all levels. Slavery for me is very real, maybe i'm wrong on this but i want Him to always have full control. my worth is based directly upon His satisfaction. LOL, i always wanted to say that! Forgive me if i've offended anyone.
Love§lave-kita_Dove
Sat, 04/05/2008 - 18:05
#17
That's just living in the closet. You need to get out and actually meet people and make these fantasies come true.
Sat, 04/05/2008 - 21:18
#18
That's just living in the closet. You need to get out and actually meet people and make these fantasies come true.
Looks like that is what they are beginning to do. Let's just see what happens here.