How to deal with another female
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How to deal with another female

Hello everyone,
I'm new to this site and fairly new to the lifestyle. Have my own ideas which are basically the very old lifestyle regarding the place of a woman, which means she does have strength and say so within the house and how it is run. Yet, the man of the house is always to make the final decision and rules the all over life.

My question to everyone is, how to deal with another female???
I'm His sub and He has another woman who claims to be a slave. Yet, she doesn't behave like a slave at all. Actually not like anyone in the lifestyle. She bitches all the time and makes Him miserable, which hurts me in return.
Actually, i feel His pain and when He gets sick, I do feel His symptoms although we might have not seen each other for weeks.

Anyhow, she lives with Him and i'm only "company" when i'm allowed to come over. This hurts very much and i don't know how to deal with it.
Master says that He loves me and needs me, yet He will not have me live with Him because i won't give up my dog which He never met. Master is everything i want and need, but how could i live if i have to discard the dog i love and saved from certain cruel death???
Did anyone experience anything like this and/or have any good advise?

Guess i should mention that the dog really is close to my heart and only trusts me. So can't just give him away after all the crap he went through

Ok, besides the dog, does anyone please have any input on the thing of another female??? It really kills me that she is being treated like an equal while claiming to be a slave.

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Re: How to deal with another female

Trading the loyalty and love of your faithful dog for what sounds to be more like an open sexual relationship between two people seems unwise. you would not be swapping your dog for Him, but for a situation of being under the thumb of the other woman. i wouldn't trade my dog or even my goldfish for that deal. It also sounds as though 'managing' the other woman is a no go. If He wanted to manage the situation He would have done so. she is clearly important in her own way to Him and who knows what the nature of their relationship truly is when they are alone. time to move on and leave them to it as He clearly cannot meet your needs... and D/s is a mutual relationship when all is said and done.

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Re: How to deal with another female

i have to say the dog being a big part of you, if he does not accept the dog he is not all you need. also it does not sound like he is really into the lifestyle. if you are ever to be happy you need to find another master. now thats my opinion so see what others have to say.

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