Hi my name is Adam and im just starting out with my sex life i was a virgin up until i was 18. i am almost 20 now but ive always had a thing about teaseing the girls i love. i have read alot about bdsm and i have always fantasysed about haveing my very own girlfriend but also my slave. my problem is that im not sure how to tell the girl i like that im into all this and im affraid of wat her reaction will be. im also very inexperianced in all this and is ganna take me a long time to learn the ropes. i live in USA, Michigan and am wondering if there is anyone who could teach me how to be a good DOM.