Like most subs i absolutely love to be restrained when being paddled. A good paddling can really push one close to safeword, and having those restraints give something to tell me that I have to stay put, endure it and try my hardest not to safeword. Lacking the restraints makes it harder to stay focused on taking the punishment or torture. How do others deal with this?
paddling
Fri, 11/21/2008 - 03:47
#1
paddling
Fri, 11/21/2008 - 03:47
#2
Paddling
For unrestrained paddling/whipping/caning [VERY difficult to hold position BTW :)], this pain-slut has found that being ordered to count out loud, and thank MISTRESS for each stroke helps the mental focus considerably. Your mileage may vary. :)
humbly,\\
jannelle simone
Thu, 11/20/2008 - 14:11
#3
The restraint allows the sub/slave to "give in", surrender and of course as stated, keep the focus where it belongs.
Thu, 11/20/2008 - 10:52
#4
sir
my fav.. is to be told to lay over a masters knee, to be able to "hold"sill is very hard lol
dee
Wed, 11/19/2008 - 20:50
#5
I agree with you completely. Plus there is the fight or flight phenomenon that comes into play. Being restrained allows simple focus and submission.