Real or play
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 18:43
#1
Real or play
My question is this who thinks of this as just play and who lives the life for real? I'm not talking 24/7 but when engaged in lifestyle activities are you just players or is your slave your slave?
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 17:59
#2
I am a slave that is simply all there is to it. I may not be collared but I do take what I am seriously. However I do have a lot of fun. I do a lot of casual play because I enjoy meeting like minded individuals. I am not going to attach myself to the first man that comes along and says kneel slave. I know that last sentence had nothing to do with the discussion but hey it was free.
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 18:43
#3
For Me, this whole slavery thing is quite normal, an aspect of life that simply is. If a person chooses to be My slave than that is what I expect, regardless of what I will or will not do or make it do. Of course, I have My responsibilities, based upon My beliefs and values. In spite of My rather academic views on rights (safety, protection), I am very responsible towards a slave. After all, it surrendered all it's rights to Me, expecting Me to use them as I please. At that moment I am holding a person's life and well-being in My hands and My values and beliefs make Me responsible for maintaining and upkeeping it's life and well-being.
Notice how the word 'play' didn't make it in the previous paragraph; to Me this is not a game.
Notice how the word 'play' didn't make it in the previous paragraph; to Me this is not a game.
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 15:38
#4
For us, my slave is a slave in all aspects of our life. Granted, yes we "play" occasionally but her slavehood is a permanent aspect of our life. I make all the decisions that will affect her. I look out for her and help her to grow and expose her to new experiences.
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 15:20
#5
But that's a fabulous demand, you know. He's setting terms that you have to obey - but He is demanding things that safeguard you and put you in a better position. i think that's important. i realize that it is in my nature to be eager to please others. My Beloved does me a great service by holding the control of that need - i go to Him with these things before deciding, and He looks out for me and doesn't allow me to stretch myself too thinly. Because i will, by my own nature.
~rayne
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 15:11
#6
To each his own. Some of us (very few) do practise this as a total lifestyle, while for others, its play and something to spice up the weekend. It really dependent on the individual involved, and hor far into the lifestyle they choose to go.
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 14:49
#7
But that's a fabulous demand, you know. He's setting terms that you have to obey - but He is demanding things that safeguard you and put you in a better position.
i think that's important. i realize that it is in my nature to be eager to please others. My Beloved does me a great service by holding the control of that need - i go to Him with these things before deciding, and He looks out for me and doesn't allow me to stretch myself too thinly. Because i will, by my own nature.
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 14:07
#8
For us, it's real. I am Master's slave in all things. There is not one aspect of our life together that I can make my own decision on. I defer to His will in all things, right down to His wishes should He become ill or injured or, gods forbid, die.
An example? I've recently been offered a promotion. I really want it. Master says if I'm not given a raise as well and if they don't have a serious plan to hire more people (when they fire the person in the current position it will be just me there) I can't take it. As much as I want the position, I won't take it if His demands aren't met.
~rayne
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 11:49
#9
As always, its real. Now I do use the word play which makes my current slave cringe (I love it), but it is always real. The life, the lifestyle, the way we believe it should be for all, all the time and hope all can enjoy it.
When I use wax, I will "play" perhaps, or I may be extremely serious in the act, as an example...
D
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 03:01
#10
The problem I see with it just being play is eventually, unforeseen factors can creep in and it may not be taken seriously by one or the other of the participants and an injury could occur.
Not that it always has to be serious, but there should be responsibilities shown by all parties.
Sat, 04/14/2007 - 01:39
#11
Thank you for your response. I understand the difference I was just wondering how others felt about the issue it is hard to correspond or interact with people if they see this all as play!