I'd like to exchange ideas with others about shame dressing, humiliating costumes, houseboy uniforms, for male servants 

Many slaves will like costumes and or uniforms or other emasculating activities no matter how much you want to humiliate them.  May I suggest painting their fingernails and toenails with an undesirable color, for one; and then taking them out to have their 'hair done up' in a fashion of your choice.  The beauty parlor will see the slaveboi as a real find, on your part.

 

I'm a submale who makes himself available to be used and worked as a servant or slave by both dominant men and women. I think having to wear certain things pushes a sub more into submission and makes a sub more willing to be used as a servant. I'm usually made to wear a garter belt with black seamed thigh high stockings. I have a fetish for women's white socks so I have to put two pairs on over the stockings ans scrunched down around my ankles. A slave collar is usually around my neck sometimes she put socks in my mouth as a gag. A recent addition has been pink legwarmers which I wear both in the house cleaning and when doing stable work wear them over my jeans.