I would be happy to hear others opinions on two related topics.

!st Domination via keyboard

2nd First Meeting

I have found several slaves/submissives who have contacted me and wish to persuit the idea of a relationship. I have been ignored by some who feel I am too heavy handed and by some who have thought I was not dominant enough. Got this feed back from a copuple of subs, soknow this is the issue. So how does a Dom know what level to approach a sub? How does a Dom broach the just telling without tonal inflection, intensity of voice, pitch of vocals etcetera by using a keyboard? It also amazes me (I know slightly ata tangent but pertinent at this juncture) ho wsomeone can say you are a whore or a cum slut using keys rather than the voice and the sub accepting this! Surely, the voice can be viewed as a film but the keyboard a few still photographs.

I have also gotten to he very verge of meeting them then they drop off the face of the earth. Why? Some I know have had fear not of what I might do but the unexpected; to a sub this must be quite daunting for them. So fear or just cold feet? How does a Dom who has explained his past and how he reached this piont in time; heard how a sub has done likewise: So we both know what to expect exactly and specifically. We both know the possibilities and both tingle at the prospects breech the gulf of a first meeting?

As a Dom I can command through force of will or by a subs mental condition in her presence but on a keyboard and screen? How does a Dom mentally control via this medium? For you can make a horse go to the waters edge but cannot make him drink it if it does not want to. Yet  in these cases teh subs did want to drink but did not? Why?

Comments by Subs particularly welcome but of course all are welcome to comment.