Thank you very much for these tips and words of wisdom!
Am finding things are making so much sense now and can't believe i waited so long to be a slave! Yes as you said, my Master is observing everything and always telling me how i've changed and how much progress we're making, sometimes i can't see it but when i think back to how i was when 1st started out i really have improved greatly. We are so close, the bond between us is just un-describeable

If you don't mind me asking, how long have you been submissive? you seem very wise!
Hope you're ok, Mely

Sorry for late reply - am still trying to find my way around the site!

Yes now have been at it a few more weeks, can see that every single Master-Slave relationship is completely different and is not to be compared. what may disgust some will excite others.
Yes we are training gently at the moment due to injuries but hoping to get back into proper training by the end of the week so am looking at what exciting new things we can practice!

Thank you very much for the advice, Hope you are well sir

i am new to this as well sir. do you know anything about useing lotions like bengay or menthol. is there something similar that will burn, swell, whatever the cool stuff does a cold burn maybe, that lasts a long time?

-fat cow with saggy udders

Hello to you, dear Hard2Train:) Without taking away from the wonderful offerings of advice from Sir Nasty_Male, I would share my humble thoughts on the matter of staying focused and on task, when it comes to doing anything, including training to be a good female (ie: submissive). First, recognise your own intent on allowing this to happen. Understand your most unobtainable goal, then draw, to yourself, the goal you can most quickly attain, if training progresses well with you. With these two goals now firmly established, keep them well in mind at all times, and then factor in the logic of your decisions. Recognise why you want to reach these two goals. This will help you understand your own mindset throughout the process, meaning you will become more familiar with your own way of processing thoughts. Your Master will, no doubt be doing a similar analysis, as he witnesses your progress under his training methods. Then once you are sure of yourself, in terms of your decisions to do your best to obtain these goals, and understand why you wish to reach, first the "closest," and then someday, the "farthest" of these goals, you will have something to mentally attach yourself to, while then knowing your pleasure is found quickest and deepest in pleasing your trainer/owner/Master. He will guide you, and keep you on the right path, and doubtless, be proud of your efforts and progress. I do hope that helps. As a pure female of submission, I offer this with the greatest respect to your reaching your goals, both your closest and farthest.

Hello, dear baldbeautygrl:) As I am in training to be a perfect milkslut, I am in forced lactation training, as well as nipple stretching. Daddy got me two of these: http://www.brushstrokes.us/nipple-bulbs-pi-2688.html prior to milking sessions, these are used on the teats to insure proper suction during milking times. Hope that helps some:)

Heya all - I am new to this and have been training for a few weeks. I keep losing focus however and slip up which understandably dis pleases my Master. Any tips on how to keep focus and not lose sight of what we are here to do?
Any advice would be welcomed!!!

Welcome to SlaveFarm. We're generally a friendly bunch and full of advice, some of which may be relevant and helpful. There a few different types of nipple stretching implements available but they fall into three basic categories: clips, pumps and piercing attachments. Clips can range from the simple clothes pin with a weight attached, to alligator or clover clips on chains which are then connected to some form of tension. The pump method could use the suction bulbs from a snake bit kit or even a commercial nipple pump for nursing mothers who have inverted nipples. Pierced nipples are easier to stretch since there are countless devices on the market to stretch just the nipple itself, not the whole breast.

While there are many commercial products available to do what you want, you might want to try experimenting with creating your own tools. Browse HomeDepot or a good cooking supply store looking for "pervertables" (objects whose intended use is innocent but which can be perverted for fun). This method is unlikely to yield results as quickly as buying something off the shelf but many people find it infinitely more satisfying.

It's completely understandable that you're both excited and nervous about beginning to explore your interests. Your concerns about not being a good fit for the lifestyle are largely unfounded. The lifestyle, for lack of a better term, is not one-size-fits-all. It's not even a single lifestyle, but rather 2,387,596 tangentially related different lifestyles. The exact number of distinct lifestyles is the subject of some very deep and impassioned philosophical debates but I won't go into the details now. My point is if the first few people you meet don't seem right for you, don't lose hope and assume the lifestyle isn't for you. It's just that you haven't found the right people yet and just need to keep looking.