Ok so here I am with things.

I have been away from this website for a long time searching others due to the fact that when I joined this sight I was very new in the lifestyle and wanted to play around but didn't really know what I wanted.  I have searched others and had some real experiences and grown in the d/s lifestyle.  I definately do not consider myself an expert but I am convinced that I can never go back to a vanilla relationship.  I seek a soul mate that I love and grow with and call wife at some point but the catch is I need a slave for this.  I first thought sub, but I realize subs are still a little to independant for my liking!  I want a vanilla appearing life but behind closed doors a woman who willingly and happily does things for me like clean my house, cooks my meals, and in general makes sure I'm happy (this will mean sexually as well)! O and while home she will only be allowed to wear clothing when I permit it!  I am not a masochist so you won't be physically punished often but you would be kept in a cage or degraded (when punished). I can assure you this will be a d/s relationship inside and a vanilla relationship outside.  Other lifestyle people may spot us as I would expect you to ask if i need anything while in company, and just generally still be serving me but to a vanilla person I assume it would just appear as you being a good wife/girlfriend.  I want a picture either on profile or in message if your interested.  The only prerequisite i would have to say is I don't mind slightly overweight girls (although i prefer skinny) but if you almost weigh as much as me or more we have a problem. 

Thanks for your time