Age : 31

Gender : Woman

Body type : Average

Height (cm) : 5'7"

Eye Color : Green

Hair Color : Red

Sexual orientation : Bi-sexual

Tatoos : A single

Piercings : A single

Actively Seeking :Dominant Men, Dom/Domme Couples, Male Dom Couples, Online Romance, Poly Household

Interests : Punishment... LOL... I have a bunch of "perverted" fetishes. I hesitate to mention it all... Spanking is the biggest one. I like the "Domestic Discipline" thing... being punished for misbehavior... learning a painful and humiliating "lesson" from a paternal figure...

Biography : Born and (partly) raised in the Southeastern United States. Corporal punishment is commonplace there. Never lacked for it for long... ;-) "Daddy" was an asshole (I'm a military brat). Dad was in the Armed Forces - treated everyone in our immediate family like we were at the bottom of some militaristic pecking-order. He really liked to use the belt when we misbehaved... such a bastard. But that's all in the past. Here's what bothers me... this notion has plagued me all my fuking life: I LIKED it. I LIKED the way he treated me... somewhere deep down I craved it, but I simultaneously feared it. I feared him. I was deathly afraid of that thick, brown, leather belt hanging in his closet. Sometimes when he was gone I'd take it down and look at it, touch the coarse surface wondering when it would be used to punish me again. The bruises would last for almost 2 weeks. He never said anything when he beat me. Total silence from him. all kinds of noises from me... so humiliating. Anyone ever listen to that song by HOLE? The song is called "Softer, Softest." That's what the whole thing reminds me of. It's like the lines: - "The pee girl gets the belt/ Your milk makes me mind/ Your milk is so sour/ Baby, I can only cry/ YOU HAVE ALL THE POWER..." - Yup. I'm not a huge fan of HOLE (definitely cant stand Courtney Love), but I love that one song... As for the belt, I remember how much shame I felt... as I got older, having to hide the bruises, especially in gym class. Deep down though I WANTED people to see... not because I wanted help, oh no, definitely not! Just because I wanted them to see how bad I was, to see what I deserved. To see what happens to girls who misbehave. Yeah, I have psychological problems... LOL. Oh well, it could b worse... btw, thought I'd put this in the bio cuz several people have asked: the name AEsa I chose for a couple reasons. 1) I like the way it sounds 2) I used to play D&D w/some of the metalheads in high schoolj, & "AEsa" was the name of my character. Yes, I am a dork. I chose the name "Straffe" because it means "punish" in Danish. Definitely afraid to give out my real name online to relative strangers (I've been stalked not once, but SEVERAL times - not just online either!). If you want to know more about me, read my blog entries. i really put TMI ... was feeling hypomanic

Occupation : Student - again! grad school this time :)

Prefs : Submissive

Willing to relocate? : No