I don't bite... well I can and probably will, but I'm just sayin'... :)

The roots of which way one leans, dominant or submissive, are very likely set early in life. Early enough that some people may not know what event or series of events caused them to favor one or the other without serious therapy or hypnosis.

What triggers the need for some subs/slaves to want to endure pain, severe torture and in some cases brutality? Is it purely the endorphin release? Love? Servitude? Some might think that they have self-esteem/self-destructive issues possibly stemming from child abuse or some other early formative tragedy.

Some things are probably left hidden. I am not a psychiatrist or a doctor, so my ramblings are simply conjecture.

I'm not saying any of the above is right or wrong, I have no problem participating in such activities when a sub/slave wants/needs it.

Personally, I can probably trace the roots of my interest in BDSM to an early childhood event.

I'm a huge fan of the kink.com videos. Particularly 'The Upper Floor' series, 'The Training of O' series, 'Device Bondage' and 'Public Disgrace' are my faves. That's the style that I really enjoy... The insex.com movies can be pretty deep and twisted, but erotic at the same time. There's a series of German vids featuring 'Alex D', all very artsy and amazingly hott.

I can be reached here or on Yahoo: misterkr1@yahoo.com. Yahoo chat too.

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