I am here primarily to make friends, particularly those with whom I can discuss and exchange ideas. The right friendship could evolve into something more.

I am interested in submissive women who want a D/s relationship, and not just play. I realize that requires a great degree of trust and takes time to develop. While I do not believe in dragging my heels, I will also not rush into anything.

I am an intellectual introvert. I like people but tend to be rather reserved around those I don't know. I prefer discussions of politics or philosophy to those of sports or celebrity gossip.

A sense of humor is very important. I do not believe that life should be taken too seriously. Even the darkest moments often have humorous undertones.

I appreciate the finer things in life, particularly food. I am a foodie who understands that good food is not necessarily found in fine or fancy restaurants. One of my passions is trying new dining establishments in hopes of discovering the ideal, yet elusive, mix of excellent food and comfortable atmosphere.

I have recently started collecting Inuit art. I find myself drawn to the traditional imagery and relative non-commercial aspect of the work. My collection is not large nor does it contain any notable pieces but it gives me pleasure.

Within the context of D/s the people who generally interest me are the ones who understand and appreciate the psychological aspects of the lifestyle. Kink is a lot of fun but it is decidedly secondary to mental/emotional aspects.

Generally I see myself as paternalistic in my relationships. It is very fulfilling to help a woman discover who she is and how she fits into this world.

Courtesy and respect are very important to me. I believe everyone deserves both unless they demonstrate otherwise.

I am a professional man in my mid-thirties. Originally from the US, I moved to Montreal in the late 90's for professional reasons. I am a workaholic who recently started his own business. It devours most of my time, but I'm finding it to be a grand adventure.

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